The time you realise that you are the only one who can make you happy - you will begin to live the life! Never wait for something what will never happen.
Be happy with yourself - enjoy the life and the moment just like the MAN OF THE MOMENT does
The moment they seem to be everything for you and you feel like a princess and think about your upcoming children - he only wants to enjoy the moment...
If he calls himself an asshole - run away! You arent this person who will make him change! He wont change! NEVER!
If someone is proud to be an asshole - Why should he want to change? Human dont change if they are proud! And if he says i am an asshole believe me - HE IS AN ASSHOLE! AND IF NOT HE IS CURRENTLY DOING EVERYTHING TO BECOME AN ASSHOLE!